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Three Secrets to a Successful Marriage Inspired by Will & Jada

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Take a drink from the fountain of everlasting marriage courtesy of Will Smith:

“I think a lot of people think that when you have money, that everything gets really easy, hell naw,” he said. “Jada and I have been together for 17 years. If you look at it like a sports record, we are probably like 15 and 2. When we got started, we both truly connected on wanting to be better. That’s where it all started. There were other people that we were dating and other people that we were attracted to, but there was a commitment to constantly be better that was what we connected on. Our whole world and relationship was that, “Hey, I know that I may not be all of that today but what I’m not going to do is lay around and not keep working to be better to deserve you.”

A marriage lasting seventeen years is something to strive for regardless of fame.  It is exponentially harder when you live your marriage in front of a microscope.  For this reason, I think we can take some very important cues from Will and Jada Smith.

Keep sugar on your tongue publicly:

Everyone does not need to know that you woke up on the wrong side of your union.  While I don’t daily follow this couples’ social media postings, I have seen enough to know that they always have something positive to say about each other.  If anything, they might overshare a bit.  I remember Jada mentioning the frequency of their lovemaking on several occasions.  Ladies, if you don’t have something nice to say about your partner, I guarantee another woman will.  So, publicly and privately keep that sugar on your tongue.  Give your partner positive affirmations to their face and behind their back and absolutely never let others know when there is trouble in paradise.

Push your partner to be a better man/woman:

Behind every strong person is an even stronger mate.  Know when to let your mate shine.  Learn to share success and push towards greatness.  All good unions should operate like a team.  Take the quarterback role and lead your team to the relationship Superbowl.  Remember, offense is just as essential as defense in football.  So, while your man may be the quarterback, you can be the best defensive lineman there is.

Seasons change:

A relationship is like a very long cycle of seasons. You may start off in hot and steamy summer, but there will be a blistering winter.  It’s the way each couple chooses to treat their relationship weather that will determine if they make it to the next season.  All unions will have ups and downs, winters and summers, but if we can’t take anything else away from Will and Jada; it’s their ability to withstand ALL weather.

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